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First Planned Home Birth We decided we wanted to have a home birth for our second child and I’m so glad we found Bethany and Anna. They were easy to talk to, always available for questions, and I was always comfortable to ask any questions no matter how small, personal or insignificant it seemed. Making appointments was easy and flexible. I always felt welcome and there was always time for questions or even just a chat. We got to know them well and our first home birth experience was comfortable and well prepared. Having the baby at home was a lot less stressful than our last birth at the hospital. With Anna and Bethany's help I felt completely prepared and in control, and I want to have any future babies at home! ~Maria Y.
First-Time Mom From the moment I met with Bethany from Shiphrah Birth Services, I could sense her warm and caring spirit. Bethany was also consistent with her knowledge of evidence based practices which made it easy to build a trusting environment for the care of me and my baby. Bethany always took the time to talk, answer questions and just build trust and relationship. When it came to labor and delivery, Bethany continued to create a warm, trusting, evidence based environment where I not only felt safe, but also felt that I would be listened to and could make choices for my birth and feel in control. I am so thankful that I found Bethany and look forward to hopefully working with her again! Thank you, Bethany! ~Hayli N.
First-Time Parents When we found out we were expecting, we immediately went to a local OB/GYN. I spent over half of my pregnancy seeing them and being pressured into procedures and told my baby would possibly not survive due to a misdiagnosed circumvallate placenta. The stress was becoming too much for me, and I was not allowed to see anyone outside of a nurse each visit. I finally found Bethany and she was such a blessing! She immediately gave me so much information and answered all of my questions regarding my pregnancy that, for the first time, I felt completely at ease with my pregnancy. She never pressured me into anything but offered expert information regarding testing and procedures; she also worked with me on a personal level and knew everything about me and my baby. During our prenatal care, birth, and postnatal care she was excellent in her knowledge and advice. I highly recommend Bethany as a midwife. ~Jennifer S.
7th Baby, First Home Birth I used Shiphrah Birth Services with my last birth, baby number 7! After having 6 babies in the hospital, I was ready for a change. I knew I wanted the comfort and control a home birth would offer me. My husband, however, was very resistant to the idea. He was concerned about safety first and foremost. We met with Bethany early in my pregnancy and she put all of our fears to rest. She was so knowledgeable and made us feel so comfortable with the process of a home birth. So, we jumped in, ready to give this new experience a try! Now, I am not an amateur when it comes to pregnancy! But, I have to say that I actually learned A LOT from Bethany! She really helped me to deal with some of my pregnancy aches and pains with natural remedies. When it came time for labor and delivery she was fantastic! Even when my labor stalled she was patient and helpful to get things back up and going again. The whole experience couldn't have been more wonderful and peaceful. We never had any fear. It was comforting to know that we were in knowledgable and confident hands throughout our labor and delivery! If Shiphrah could make a believer out of my husband, they can make a believer out of ANYONE! We will never have another baby in the hospital again! ~Greta Z.
4th Baby, First Home Birth Bethany was our midwife for the birth of our fourth son, which was our first homebirth experience. Although we had experienced birth 3 times previously, it was like starting over again as we thought through the plan of laboring and delivering at home. Bethany and her secondary midwife, Anna, were both so helpful in answering our questions and giving us great prenatal, delivery, and post partum care. Navigating the unknown world of homebirth can seem a bit scary at first, but her care and expertise gave us confidence and support that we needed. We are so glad we chose to have Bethany by our side in this incredible journey and would recommend her to anyone! ~Paula P.
First-Time Mom In the process of completing the Bradley Method class series, my husband and I became concerned that we would be unable to have the birth we wanted with an OB group in a hospital setting. We were afraid that we would be pressured to accept medication or be faced with decisions that we were unprepared to make. We still wanted the reassurance of all of the resources a hospital has to offer, but we wanted someone on our team to back us up and be our advocate if needed.
From the second we met Bethany, we both knew she would be a perfect fit for us and a fantastic addition to our birth team. She was an extremely helpful resource while I was pregnant, offering feedback on our birth plan, answering all of our questions, and checking in to make sure all was well. She clearly cared about us and her support was incredibly reassuring.
When I went into labor on the morning of June 16, we found her experience and knowledge to be invaluable. I was unsure whether the contractions were the "real thing," but during a phone conversation, Bethany recognized that they were and we decided she should head our direction. She arrived at our house late in the morning. As we had discussed in our meetings, we wanted to labor at home as long as possible, so she offered advice on positions, suggested and helped apply counterpressure, made sure I kept eating, drinking, and going to the bathroom, and provided more support than I could possibly express here. With one question about pressure, she recognized that I was further along than any of us realized and started the conversation about going to the hospital with Mike and then me shortly thereafter. Thanks to her guidance, we arrived at the hospital exactly when we wanted. After we arrived, she made sure the nursing staff was informed of our birth plan and acted as our liaison, leaving Mike free to support me. She continued to provide support, suggestions, and encouragement, getting me into the tub to speed labor progression and back out of the tub when necessary. After the birth, she was even able to capture some photos of the first moments of our daughter's life, which we will always treasure. Before leaving, she helped with breastfeeding and made sure we were comfortable. I had some breastfeeding issues, and she provided several helpful tips both through the post-partum meeting and additional communication. Once again, it was very clear that she truly cared about us and our daughter.
With Bethany's help, Mike and I had exactly the birth experience we wanted. I wish I had better words to express my deep appreciation for everything she did; we would have been lost without her. I guarantee you will be grateful for your decision to use her as your doula... just don't take her on any of my future due dates! ;) ~Sam and Mike Barrett
From a VBAC Mom
Jamie and I decided to hire Bethany as our doula because I was determined to do everything I could to achieve my VBAC. Our first son was born via c-section, which in retrospect I feel could have possibly been avoided if I had been better educated, and I didn't want that to happen again! Though Jamie was initially hesitant to hire a doula, it turned out to be one of the best decisions we ever made. Bethany was instrumental in helping us develop our birth plan, which was so educational as we approached my due date.
When my water broke 2 weeks early Bethany met us at the hospital, and stayed with us the entire 19 hours of my intense, medication-free back labor! She never left my side and was such a comfort for both Jamie and I. She encouraged and supported me, and advocated for me when I asked her to. With her help we were able to achieve a successful, natural VBAC, one of the best experiences of my entire life. I know that Bethany's knowledge, skills, and compassion played a huge part in the birth of our sweet son, Oliver. Jamie, though initially reluctant, tells everyone about our doula and how grateful he is that she was there-- 19 hours is a long time for a weary husband to watch his wife in pain! Bethany was a wonderful part of our birth "family," and we are so, so thankful for her.
~Jamie, Kara, Silas, and Oliver Johnson
From a Dad's Perspective
My partner and I worked with Bethany Gates in the spring and summer of 2012. Kate was due at the end of June, and we wanted to have a natural childbirth if at all possible. We met Bethany at one of our weekly Bradley meetings in Cedar Falls, met with her to discuss our birth plan, and decided that we wanted her help with preparations, labor, and childbirth.
I was very happy that we hired Bethany. She was knowledgeable, supportive, efficient, and caring. She met with us twice prior to Kate’s labor and delivery, and was in frequent phone and email contact as the due date approached. As questions arose from our end, Bethany was there with solid information to help us make decisions consistent with our birth plan. Her approach in helping us with decision-making was always to provide information and guidance, and never to push us toward any one particular kind of practice or procedure. We were concerned that during the intensity of labor and childbirth we might feel pressure from the hospital’s medical staff to accept a course of action that we didn’t want, and Bethany’s presence always made us feel as though we could conference with a knowledgeable, supportive ally before hasty decisions were made.
Bethany met our highest hopes and expectations throughout the day of labor and delivery. Kate went into labor in the very early hours of the morning, and by noon we were heading to the hospital. Bethany had been in contact with us from roughly 9am until we met her at the hospital. She was an indispensable presence in our labor and delivery experience from the moment we saw her waiting for us in the lobby. She knew how to massage Kate’s back, how to navigate policies suggested by nurses, whether and when to try different laboring positions, and so forth. As the partner to the birthing mother, I was thankful for Bethany’s presence at every turn. Much of the process was overwhelming, and my ignorance was made apparent to me early and often. Having Bethany there allowed me to recover a needed feeling of competence and control. Not only were her particular gifts, training, and strategies enormously helpful during labor and delivery; but her presence also allowed me to take brief breaks in order to use the restroom, eat a sandwich, and so forth. These sound like trifling benefits in retrospect, but it strikes me as important to have a trustworthy ally close at hand during those moments when the birthing mother’s primary support person cannot be present.
Bethany’s strong work ethic, care, and expertise were evident when we met with her a week after our daughter was born, as well. Bethany included a post-partum breast-feeding support session in her services. For this session she came to our home, asked us questions, offered helpful suggestions, and gave us a typed review of our day of labor and delivery. To me, this post-partum session shows that Bethany’s care extends beyond the central work of childbirth, and indicates her dedication to the health of the mothers and infants with whom she works. Her typed review of our day provided a wonderful third-party perspective on the most important day of our lives, and is something that Kate and I will return to as our daughter grows older.
I give Bethany my highest recommendation. Her work as a doula gave us confidence, and put us at ease throughout what could have been an overwhelming and difficult day. ~Dan Morris